Most people worry about forgetting a word, making a mispronunciation, or saying something other than what they meant to say. The reality is that all public speakers make mistakes; it is how you handle the problem that makes or breaks a public speaker. By allowing yourself the freedom to do your best, without worrying about anything that might go wrong, you will overcome your fear and give a terrific speech without any of the nervous behaviors that are concerning you.

Some people simply rehearse too much. Then when the actual moment to deliver the speech arrives, they black out and totally freeze. Just practice the speech until you have it down, and then quit worrying about it.

In addition, don't worry if you forget a word during the practice, simply keep going. Continually going back over the speech until you have it down word for word is often more stressful than having the outline of the speech in your mind, and then going forward from there.

So the secret is to stay calm, cool and collected. Practice no doubt - but do not go overboard. Stressed nerves can get too tight and snap! They only put tremendous pressure on you. Stress is the straight path to failure. So AVOID it!

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