There isn't one definite way to deliver a wedding speech, especially as weddings today are becoming more and more untraditional. However, you must keep in mind the makeup of the audience. You're sure to have aunts, uncles, grandparents, and children.

Make sure your jokes, stories, and overall speech is appropriate for all. It is important to avoid any "insider" jokes that will only be known by a select few at the wedding. While the jokes may be very funny to those in the know, they will largely fall flat on the rest of the audience. In addition, they could be a source of embarrassing questions for the people involved.

The Best Man's speech should focus on the happy and enjoyable events in the Groom's life, and should avoid any potentially embarrassing or inappropriate comments, no matter how humorous they may be. The speech should conclude with well wishes for the newly weds, and your support of their marriage and life together.

The decision to prepare a humorous or serious speech is entirely up to you. I recommend having a speech with a good mix of both humor and sentimental parts. However, the toast to the Bride and Groom should always be serious, and should support the marriage and the continued love and relationship of the couple.

This is the final email of the "Best Man Secrets" Newsletter. I hope this information has been extremely useful in helping you prepare for your best man's speech.

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